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Just now, dnd5 said:

freak in the sheets 😉

 

jk but I think there’s something to enjoying what you have and cherishing your significant other that keeps your relationship strong

Awwwwwww that’s beautiful

 

 

.... jk u slut 

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3 minutes ago, dnd5 said:

freak in the sheets 😉

 

jk but I think there’s something to enjoying what you have and cherishing your significant other that keeps your relationship strong

100% agree my friend 

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7 minutes ago, dnd5 said:

freak in the sheets 😉

 

jk but I think there’s something to enjoying what you have and cherishing your significant other that keeps your relationship strong

100%

 

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I wouldn't see it as cheating but I feel like it's an insult to your significant. This would especially be the case if one of them was kept in the dark. If both parties agreed that it's fine, I don't see a problem. Personally, I would not be able to do it on my own even if a significant other told me that they were okay with it. I would feel like I was betraying them. I would rather invest that time in nurturing the relationship with them.

 

OF - I would feel uncomfortable.. But, alas.. I also need someone to pay for my runescape subscriptions. This is a dilemma. Allow me the time to reflect on such complex philosophical rudiments.

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1 hour ago, Flukejiver said:

I don’t think it’s cheating but I also don’t think it’s right to do while in a relationship.

 

I wouldn’t want the person I’m with to have an OF.

Fluke pretty well hit the nail on the head. I also think the biggest part is understanding. Heck, some people like to watch it together. My biggest thing that comes out of these thoughts is this..... YOU need to find yourself and what works for YOU and YOUR partner/s. Not every relationship is going to be the same, and that is ok. Something that i may view as weird may be totally normal to others. Whatever works for you and your partner should be your only focus, and definitely something you two (or more) should talk about. 

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I am extreme liberal person probably saying that, but I am complete open to it all. I probably wouldn't be the one bringing it up, but from my personal experience I know plenty of people who are very open with their sexuality and feel comfortable to experiment and look around for something new. 

 

Also same probably would go with Onlyfans, I probably know a lot female content creators who have picked up that in past few years and I would support if my significant other would want to do it. 

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I think it's more than okay, and I even encourage that my partner has a (self)-sex life of their own. Perhaps they like fantasizing about stuff that I'm not into so they can watch and have their solo-fun with that. I definitely like to have my private space even in a relationship where I want to be fully by myself and get some inspiration in vids. Or we are into the same type of films then we can watch together and maybe even find new shit to try out 

 

As for an onlyfans, I wouldn't mind if they had one as long as it's something they are open/upfront about and not something they try to keep a secret. I'm cool with pretty much anything but communication is key. I have friends who are in relationships and they help their partner create the content for OF and are completely chill and open about it, I think that's perfectly fine.

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It's not cheating, unless they rather watch porn than have sex with you for his pleasure time.. then that's something debatable and I'm not ok with him paying for sexual content too. I don't mind the guy watching porn (I just don't need to know or need a review of him watching it...) Watching porn can be fun and especially together, either for science or to laugh at it tbh 

 

and fuck the OF stuff, I don't think I'd be ok with that. 

 

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If you watch hentai it ain't cheating since you'd be watching cartoons

 

Also ya making bank with OF looks fine to me

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2 hours ago, Dickus said:

I don’t think personal consumption of porn is cheating unless there’s something obsessive about it - a particular actor/actress, a certain OnlyFans account, etc. 

 

If you’re mixing it up and just trying to find something to get your nut, no biggie. Just don’t get weird about it and start having fantasies about someone you see online lol.

 

 

 

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I don't think is cheating. Also, I don't see why I or my partner would watch that when we have each other

 

would you be okay with your significant other having an Only Fans? What if they were making bank with their OFs? Does that change things?

 

No, I would not be okay with her having Only Fans. I don't care if they are making lots of $ through that and even if I am getting benefitted from it... just NO. 

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Sometimes when the lady isn't feeling to get it on, guys have to watch it. Would you rather them watch porn or go out and satisfy their needs another way aka actually cheating. 

 

For onlyfans, no. 

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