Thoughts on watching “adult films” while in a relationship?

[Da Bazz 715]

I wouldn't say it's cheating but it should 100% be discussed with your partner. Because as mentioned before it's probably a need that you aren't getting in your relationship. I'd want a relationship where both parties are 100% open about everything no matter how weird / damaging it might be. 

[Kim 125]

I love sex and love watching sex. My girlfriend is completely ok with it. I don't go out with my way on telling her though. If I have, its because she has called me in the middle of my "activity." In contrast, if my partner is watching. I fully support it as needs need to be met especially if I am not with them in person.


in terms of onlyfans, idc. As long as I am their only sex partner, we ok. 

Edited April 2, 2021 by Kim

[bomb 145]

Would expect them to still be watching porn for sure.  Wouldn't care really about the OF, obviously expectations would be clear before getting into a relationship or them starting one though.

[danex 461]

just know i'd never cheat on you @Carolina

[@True 2k8 3,224]

Awaiting insight from @Boxerpup

[Krystal 420]

We tried watching porn together and tbh it felt awkward for us both lol.  I feel like it depends on the couple and what they're comfortable with. There's no right or wrong answer here. We both have a "you can look but don't touch" mindset about it and have openly talked about what celebrities we'd bang, etc. I can't truly comment on the OF question because I don't know what it is. From what people are saying here, it sounds like it's a platform where people can whore themselves out..? I think that'd be a bit tough to accept.. although if he's making good money for us.. hmm lol. 

[Blackinise 33]

Robelink ur kinda cringe 

[BleakTerror 451]

wth are these topics!!!!

 

but only if its stepsis videos of course @Carolina

[Boxerpup 76]

4 hours ago, true said:

Awaiting insight from @Boxerpup

Why me haha

 

 

Personally I feel it should be discussed with your partner as to what you guys feel comfortable with.  Through past relationships I've been with girls who had both much higher and extremely lower libido's then I did, so sometimes one partner or the other just needs that little bit to take the edge off so they don't feel that they're constantly bothering the other half for that satisfaction/release; other reasons is that they feel they want to try new things and aren't sure how to go about it, most people are into less vanilla now a-days.

 

Again, every relationship is different so I feel you should consult your relationship partner and have this conversation with them, explaining your view points and seeing why they feel the need to watch this. The most important thing is for both people to remain calm and take in the information from the other person and not get emotional or upset by any answers they receive.  If both parties can agree to this, then your relationship will blossom into something new and better.

 

 

Bonus; the onlyfans to me personally I don't like. I feel that my partner is mine and the "goodies" should only be seen by me. I do like to show off my girlfriend, but i do it to where she's comfortable and nothing past that. But going off a non-biast opinion, I feel this point should also be discussed.  If you or your partner are partaking in OnlyFans, and both parties are comfortable with this decision, I don't see a reason why its bad,, especially if you're (used loosely) making good money.  If one person is not comfortable I feel a calm discussion is needed and that possibly a compromised solution can be achieved that leaves both parties happy. 

[Martin 42]

11 hours ago, Kuraminha said:

To me personally I think it is indeed a form of cheating, since you're kinda not satisfied enough with your partner, having to get external stimulus out of the relationship itself to enjoy a moment supposed to be very intimate and satisfying. It's maybe a signal something may not be that right at all. To me couples should feel comfortable enough to talk about sex and their personal wishes within the context without the need to show sex material in order to actually do it themselves. 

 

would you be okay with your significant other having an Only Fans? What if they were making bank with their OFs? Does that change things?

 

Nop. Having to sell your body online to be able to make a comfy living is something I'm really don't want to anyone else. People get exploited this way, families get destroyed like that. So it's def a no

this is loud and clear.